Understand your partner in a way that changes everything
Conscious Couples: Your Enneagram Relationship Map
A 4-session experience to learn each other’s patterns, communicate with clarity, and create a relationship that feels safe, connected, and aligned.
Sometimes it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Conversations escalate too quickly.
Tone gets misread.
You want closeness, but old patterns get activated instead.
You’re trying — but it still feels hard to really understand each other.
And depending where you are in your relationship…
If you’re early: you want to learn each other’s patterns before they become problems.
If you’re preparing for commitment: you want clarity, not assumptions.
If you’ve been together for years: you want to reconnect intentionally, not accidentally.
But underneath all of it is the same desire:
“I want to understand this person — and feel understood by them.”
The Real Reason It Feels Hard
It’s not incompatibility.
It’s untranslated patterns.
Your Enneagram types shape:
how you respond under stress
how you communicate
how you protect yourself
what makes you feel safe
what triggers you without meaning to
Without knowing this, you end up personalizing what was never personal.
That’s when:
Misunderstandings snowball.
Distance forms quietly.
You love each other — but still miss each other.
What you need isn’t more effort.
You need a shared understanding of how each of you works.
What Changes When You Understand Each Other
When you understand your own patterns —
and your partner’s patterns —
Communication softens.
Conflict de-escalates.
Safety returns.
Connection deepens.
This is what makes long-term partnership feel easier, steadier, and more intimate.
What if nothing is wrong…
you just haven’t learned each other’s inner world yet?
Imagine these shifts becoming normal:
You start a tough conversation and it doesn’t turn into a fight.
You finally understand why your partner shuts down — and how to reach them.
Misunderstandings get caught early, before they spiral.
Repair becomes natural instead of awkward.
You know how to support each other without over-functioning.
You feel close again — not as who you were, but as who you’re becoming together.
Hi, I’m Liz
Relationships have always been at the center of my life — the place where I’ve experienced the most joy, the most growth, and the most awakening.
And one thing I’ve learned again and again is this:
when you understand yourself and your partner more deeply, everything softens.
That’s why I love working with couples.
The Enneagram has helped me strengthen every relationship I care about — my marriage, my friendships, my family, the way I parent, and the way I lead my clients. It’s the most powerful tool I know for understanding why we react the way we do, how we communicate, and what we need to feel safe and connected.
My work isn’t about assigning blame or deciding who’s “right.”
It’s about helping you see the patterns beneath the surface —
and giving you the clarity to support each other without losing yourselves.
I’m here to help you build a relationship that feels grounded, intentional, and deeply connected.
Conscious Couples:
Your Enneagram Relationship Map
A guided relationship journey for couples who want clearer communication, deeper understanding, and a stronger foundation.
You receive:
Enneagram Discovery
Two 50-minute Sessions
(individual)
Strengths + Challenges
One 50-minute Session
(together)
A guided interview to uncover how you and your partner see the world — your patterns, defenses, needs, and the deeper motivations shaping how you show up in love, conflict, and connection.
How your types interact, where misunderstandings arise, and how to support each other more effectively.
Integration + Deepening
One 50-minute Session
(together)
A Relationship Resource Guide
(PDF)
This isn’t therapy.
This is understanding — the kind that creates real, lasting connection.
Tools for communication, conflict repair, and conscious partnership.
Personalized insights, communication scripts, conflict de-escalation tools, and shared rituals for connection.
A 4-SESSION EXPERIENCE
Conscious Couples:
Your Enneagram Relationship Map
$797
You love each other.
Now you get to understand each other.
Whether you're starting your relationship
or starting fresh within it…